The Photo Shoot

I am an exhibitionist. Always have been. I love displaying myself as much as I can. It’s just my particular brand of kink. I’ve written about it before in other posts. I like to compare sexual desire to fire. Not only because that’s what it feels like to me, but because of another reason. Fire [...]

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Naughty Uses of Food

Since today is Thanksgiving, I figured I’d talk about using food in your sex life. Most people fail at this miserably so let me offer some of my suggestions to a sexy and naughty use of food. Why Food? We are sensory creatures but we often ignore them. We focus on our sight mostly and [...]

How to Seduce a Woman Online

Welcome to the internet! Here you can do almost anything you want to. What’s that you say? You’d like to use the wonderful invention of the world wide web to find a few friends for some philandering fornication? Have you heard tales of Friends With Benefits (FWB) just lying around the corner for your most [...]

Learning to Love

* An Introductory Note: My blog contains a blend of fiction and creative non-fiction. When I tell of events specifically involving myself, they really happened to me. Sometimes I blur exact locations and change the names of people involved to protect their anonymity. This particular post involves a real-life person who is very important to [...]

A Guide to Practical Sex Magic

Real Magic As we’re in this Halloween season and people talk freely of ghosts and magic I’d like to make a confession of my own. I believe in magic. Real magic of course. Carl Sagan, the famous scientist and educator, once famously said: “What an astonishing thing a book is. It's a flat object made [...]

4 Ways To Banish Sex Guilt and Shame

I am not a sex therapist. I am a mom and a wife and a woman and a lover. My advice and opinions don’t come under the endorsement of a degree nor am I qualified to give you therapy. Unless it’s massage 🙂 But then again, this is free. So I suppose I’m doing as [...]

The Football Dare

I grew up in a football home. My dad coached little-league and all my brothers played. I was a cheerleader on the sidelines for all their games. I was not very good. I was the football girl. You know, the one who actually understood the game and had an opinion about what was going on. [...]